Okay, so I tried to make out a very loose schedule just for today--no even for real school or anything--I did it and it wasn't so bad. I wrote out the things I wanted to accomplish and then put them into the schedule. So--it looked like this--
Get up at 6:30 and between 6:30 and 9 I wanted to read my Bible, make pancakes for breakfast, feed everybody, get everybody dressed, beds made, teeth brushed, and start a load of laundry.
9-10 Work on our study go christian heroes and do an Usborne search book with Joe when he got bored of coloring and listening.
10-11 Chores--teach the girls how to wipe down the bathroom using vinegar/water spray bottle, clean the bathroom, and vacuum
11-12 lunch, make popsicles, and free time if we finish early
12:30 reading time
12:30-1:45 quiet time in rooms
1:45-4 library for the Captain Underpants party
4 on freetime
Pretty easy right--easy to stick to, pretty flexible and we'd accomplish quite a bit. So--this is how it really went. I got up at 6:45, late but not too late. I followed the schedule great until 9 (although the laundry didn't get started until later). At 9 when it was Corrie Ten Boom time (she's the great christian hero we are studying). But--this is what was happening at 9. Hannah was reading a book (woo-hoo) and really into it. She made a great deal with me, if she reads three whole chapter books this week I will take her to Target and let her spend her
own money on a really tacky pair of capri pants that she is just dying to have. So, she was madly reading and reading today. She finished her book at about noon. But at 9 I didn't have the heart to stop her. Besides, just a few minutes into the search book with Joe he didn't want to do that anymore because he wanted to play star wars with Grace. So, I went and did dishes and laundry and then spent pretty much the rest of the morning helping Joe deal with his overwhelming feelings of frustration and despair because his new ewok won't stand up on his own with his feet together. He can only stand alone when his feet are spread apart as though they are walking. Joe hates this and melted into a pool of frustration numerous times over it today. I'm ready to throw the dumb ewok away but we seem to have gotten past it for now at least. These meltdowns were definitely not in the schedule but with a kid like Joe they are part of life so they should be, if only they were predictable. So, back to the schedule, it's about 11ish now and we've missed chore time too. But, Hannah's still reading and Grace and Joe and I are ready to make popsicles even though the schedule says it's lunch time. So, forget the schedule we made some yummy popsicles--frozen fruit and yogurt pops and rocky road pops (chocolate pudding mixed with marshmallow and put in a cup with nuts and choc chips). Then everybody wanted to lick the bowl so we had lunch first and then licked the bowl. Then Joe had another huge meltdown because he wanted the wooden car so I laid on the bed with him and the girls listened to the Corrie Ten Boom CD and did the coloring sheets and stuff while Joe and I rested for about half an hour. Long enough for him to calm down and me to fall asleep. We got up and he and Grace played in their room for about an hour happily--miracle of all miracles! Hannah and I played skip-bo and she beat me twice. She always beats me! Then I took a two hour nap (not on the schedule) while the kids watched Leave it to Beaver. Then I put dinner in the oven and came to write this blog (not on the schedule). Notice that we never made it to the library. They were having a Captain Underpants party and I told the kids that the punch would be called "Dirty Laundry Water" but it really wasn't and that's all they needed to know to know they didn't really want to go. We don't read Captain Underpants anyway so it wasn't a big deal to miss it. So, I've decided that scheduling is just not our thing. Maybe making a list of things I would like to accomplish will be better. Then as we are ready to transition we have an idea of what we want to do. Of course, we never did get to chores today. Maybe I'll try to schedule a day once we start school and really need more order anyway. Honestly though, I don't think a schedule will ever work for us. Chore charts and a list might be better. Chore charts....I see a blog coming!